Bringing home a new baby is exciting but if you already have a little one at home, you're probably wondering something else too:

"How will my older child react?"

It's a completely normal concern.

For your older child, this is a big change. Until now, they've had your attention all to themselves. Suddenly, they'll be sharing their home, their routine, and most importantly, their parents.

The good news? With a little preparation, you can help your older child feel excited about becoming a big brother or sister instead of anxious about the change.

Children handle change much better when they know what's coming. Start talking about the baby during pregnancy using simple, age-appropriate language.

Tell them things like:

• The baby will be very small.
  
• Babies cry because that's how they communicate.
  
• You'll be such a wonderful big brother/sister.
  

The goal isn't to make them feel responsible, it's to make them feel included.

Children love feeling important. While you're setting up the nursery, ask your older child to help with small tasks.

They can:

• Fold tiny baby clothes
  
• Arrange soft toys
  
• Organize diapers in a fabric storage basket
  
• Help choose a baby wrapper or newborn swaddle
  
• Pick a blanket for the baby
  

These little moments help them feel like they're part of the journey instead of watching from the sidelines.

Children enjoy having responsibilities that make them feel valued. Simple jobs like handing you a diaper, choosing the baby's outfit, or helping during playtime can make them feel proud.

Remember, appreciation goes a long way.

A simple "Thank you for helping" can mean everything to a young child.

As your newborn settles in, look for opportunities where both children can spend time together.

When the baby is awake, place them on a soft play mat or under a baby play gym while your older child talks, sings, or shows them a favourite toy. These simple interactions help build a bond naturally and make your older child feel included from the very beginning.

Welcoming a new baby is a big milestone for the whole family not just for parents. With patience, reassurance, and lots of love, your older child can grow into their new role with confidence.

Include them in everyday moments, celebrate their help, and remind them that there's more than enough love to go around.

Sometimes, it's the little things folding baby clothes together, helping organize the nursery, or spending a few quiet minutes playing as a family that create the strongest sibling bonds.